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Valuing is a judgement of worth or desirability based on the qualities that make up whatever is being valued. The outcome of the judgement will depending what beliefs are held at the time of the judgement. If your set of beliefs are based on material values then it is unlikely you will give much value to making someone smile or even to loving another person without payment. A man may not put a high value on his wife's new dress nor a woman put a great value on her husbands new toolkit, yet to each their possessions are highly rated.
The challenge associated with valuing, is to replace judgements made on materialistic bases and financial gain, with those using personal values. In everyday life ask yourself how you arrived at a value, what judgements were made, what beliefs used and were they the right ones. Remember to do this when you make judgements about your Self and your own value.
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